by Asra Q. Nomani and Debra Tisler
STAFFORD, VA โ โThey are not taking my baby girl!โ cries Sean Jackson, the black father of a beautiful girl, Amoria Adams, 10 months old, holding his beloved daughter.
This week, a school board member from Fairfax County, Va., Karen Keys-Gamarra, put in motion a judgeโs order that tonight took a beautiful baby girl from the home of her doting father and paternal grandparents. At this moment. At 8:33 PM.
โYou guys are taking my child,โ says Jackson, distraught.
โNo!โ cries the paternal grandmother, Kimberly Jackson-Makle.
Three Stafford County sheriffโs officers moved tonight โ Monday night, to seize this baby, nicknamed โMori,โ because of a judgeโs order put in place by Keys-Gamarra on Monday without the fatherโs or paternal grandparentsโ awareness.
Then, in the darkness of the night, little Amoria was strapped into a car seat in a white car and driven away by a stranger. Her father and grandparents have no clue where she is tonight.
How did this miscarriage of justice happen?
The writing on the wall was written on May 4, on the fourth floor of the Arlington Juvenile and Domestic Relations District Court, a bailiff held Amoria as a three-month-old baby girl and shouted, โFather? Whereโs the father?โ
Jackson, 28, a paramedic in nearby Stafford, Va., stepped forward and declared, โIโm the father.โ
The bailiff thrust the baby into his arms.
Ever since Jackson had learned through a paternity test that he was Amoriaโs father, he had been trying to win visitation. It seemed his case might have suddenly been strengthened. A few feet away, Arlington police led away the babyโs mother, 21, in handcuffs, arrested on an outstanding warrant for alleged assault and battery involving abuse of another of her daughters.
What are you? Retarded?
In the confusion, Jackson wondered what happened next.
But when he sought advice from the person who would know, Karen Keys-Gamarra, Amoriaโs court-appointed attorney, he got a shocking answer โ one that he says telegraphed her bias against him.
โWhat are you?โ Keys-Gamarra snapped: โRetarded?โ
While Keys-Gamarra denies using the term, it wouldnโt be the first time the lawyer, a Black activist and Fairfax County School Board member who ran as a โvoice for the voiceless,โ used the slur. On Thursday, Oct. 20, at a public meeting of the school board of Fairfax County Public Schools, Keys-Gamarra blurted out at one point during a dispute, โWe cannot be this retarded,โ in a hot-mic moment. The next day, disturbed by the use of the word, school board chair Rachna Sizemore Heizer told a local WUSA9 TV reporter, โThat is actually the third time sheโs used it.โ Little did Sizemore Heizer know that a young father had also heard the word used to demean him. And according to someone close to Amoriaโs mother, Keys-Gamarra refused to give Amoria to Jackson once when the baby was sick, saying: โHe is retarded.โ
For Jackson and his parents, the case illustrates the biases of a system rigged against fathers even by so-called progressives. Amoriaโs mother, who is also Black, was three months pregnant with her when she was jailed in July 2021 for felony charges of possession of controlled substances and โgross, wanton or reckless care of a child.โ (more…)