Married women receive more physical touch and are less lonely than single or childless women
Press release from the Charlottesville-based Institute for Family Studies:
A new YouGov survey, sponsored by the Institute for Family Studies with the Wheatley Institute, finds that married women are more likely than their unmarried counterparts to report feeling deep connection and meaning in their relationships and are less likely to report being lonely.
The 2025 Women’s Well-being Survey (WWS) of 3,000 women in the US aged 25-55 found that married mothers reported higher levels of happiness and physical touch, as well as less loneliness, than their unmarried or childless counterparts.
Northern Virginia counties that let students use the opposite sex’s bathrooms and locker rooms can pay to pave their own streets. We won’t.
Image credit: Restoration News
by Jacob Grandstaff
President Donald Trump’s administration should pull all Department of Transportation funding from counties and cities whose school boards continue to push far-left gender ideology. A good place to start would be in the heart of the swamp—the Washington, D.C. suburbs.
The school districts in Alexandria, Prince William, Fairfax, Arlington, and Loudoun County continually defy the Department of Education’s order on required gender norms and policies. These leftist-controlled districts prioritize radical gender ideology over student safety and biological reality, allowing boys who identify as girls into female restrooms and locker rooms, and vice versa. This perversion not only endangers students but mocks commonsense protections under Title IX, which was meant to safeguard women’s spaces.
As a result, the Department of Education announced it will pull all federal funds from these school districts. This is a start, but it’s insufficient. Federal education funding makes up a tiny proportion of local school budgets, and certainly not enough to force compliance in wealthy areas like the D.C. suburbs. To truly force change, Trump must hit them where it hurts—their roads, bridges, and transit systems funded by the Department of Transportation.
There I was, tiptoeing back into the news on Sunday afternoon when I stumbled on an alarming WVEC 13 News Facebook post: “State Police Probe ‘Sensitive’ Situation in Virginia Beach, Urge Public To Avoid Bay Colony Area.”
There I was, tiptoeing back into the news on Sunday afternoon when I stumbled on an alarming WVEC 13 News Facebook post: “State Police Probe ‘Sensitive’ Situation in Virginia Beach, Urge Public To Avoid Bay Colony Area.”
Wait. What?
It was an oddly worded headline. A “sensitive situation”? Who writes these things? As it turned out a 40-year old homeless man was shot to death when he attempted to break into the home of a State Police Special Agent who lives on Lee Road in Bay Colony.
Crime isn’t non-existent in this upscale area, but shootings? Rare. Very rare.
No surprise there were hundreds of comments on Facebook. What WAS surprising was the tone.
Looks like Virginia Beach suffers from a rip-roaring case of begrudgery. Continue reading.
Roanoke College Swim Team Captain Lily Mullens Oct. 5, 2023. (WSLS/YouTube screenshot)
by Scott Dreyer
On August 25, Attorney General Jason Miyares held a press conference at the Salem library to share the findings of his office’s investigation into how Roanoke College treated members of its women’s swim team, a controversy that first erupted in the fall of 2023 and went on to make national headlines. Miyares claimed that not only did his office find that Roanoke College violated the swimmers’ civil rights, but also violated the Virginia Human Rights Act and federal Title XI, which was created in 1972 to guarantee equal access to sports for females.
Cady Mullens read a statement on behalf of her daughter Lily Mullens, one of the complainants in the Attorney General’s investigation of Roanoke College, who could not attend the conference due to work obligations.
“I am Lily Mullens, the former captain of the Roanoke College Women’s Swim Team. I’m here today with a heavy but hopeful heart, sharing an experience that’s honestly been the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through. Two years ago, my teammates and I returned to campus with college dreams of an amazing swim season. But that optimism was shattered when we learned a male swimmer was joining our women’s team, and we realized that instead of focusing on training and our studies, we would be entering into a battle against our own school and the NCAA for our very basic rights, to compete fairly with and against other female swimmers and to speak freely in defense of our own fair treatment.
“What followed was a grueling ordeal that took a tremendous toll on my mental health, physical well-being, and emotional strength. My teammates and I faced anxiety, sleepless nights, and a sense of defeat and abandonment, knowing biology stacked the odds against us. The leaders responsible for ensuring a safe and lawful educational experience were not only indifferent to our discrimination but actively retaliated against us, upset that we wouldn’t prioritize a man’s feelings above our own rights and accomplishments. At times, the backlash on campus left me so fearful, I became a prisoner in my own dorm room.
Restoration News has a thoughtful essay by Matt Wolfson about Jeff Bezos’ makeover of The Washington Post, the largest provider of state/local news in Virginia. Although Bezos is pushing the Post’s op-ed section to embrace liberty and free markets, Wolfson sees the Amazon CEO’s moves as a deep-state power play.
His conclusion: “This is media-as-cartel: A monopolization of information by a small number of connected players who can set the terms of its release, and even stop some information from being released at all. It is an unprecedented threat to America’s constitutional republic and the free flow of public opinion on which our founders knew it to depend.”
In this view, state/local news reporting is very much the tail of the dog — indeed, hair on the tail of the dog. How that coverage is structured and resourced likely hinges largely upon decisions made for strategic reasons that have nothing to do with Virginia’s wellbeing. — JAB
They say that when people look back on their happiest children experiences they rarely reminisce about the big trips or visits to plastic theme parks like Disney World.
Nope. Our fondest memories center around the time we spend relaxing with loved ones.
It’s the small moments, the quality family time that stick with us.
That sounds right.
My happiest childhood memories almost always settle on our annual family camping trips: the Jersey Shore, Niagara Falls, Maine, West Virginia.
It wasn’t the destinations that I remember. It was the long car rides where we played license plate games, sang, told stories to pass the time. I don’t remember any fancy meals, but I do recall the food we shared at splintered roadside picnic tables.
With that in mind, my daughter and I decided to plan a four-day last-gasp-of-summer getaway for five adults and three kids, who range in age from four months to nine years.
Where do you go to spend a couple of days of relaxation – with an infant – without breaking the bank?
“What about Shrine Mont?” I suggested.
Last summer a friend and I spent a weekend in Orkney Springs, Va. at a quirky, old-fashioned church retreat center. We weren’t there for spiritual growth. We were there for a pickleball camp.
We came away enchanted and vowed we’d be back with our families. Continue reading.
Ten years ago, with the initial rise of Donald Trump, a yard sign began popping up in the yards of right-thinking progressives: “Hate Has No Home Here.”
The message was effective, promoting the righteousness of the homeowner while demonizing “the other.” A moral hierarchy was established.
Funny, how that seems a long time ago.
Last Thursday, the Lt. Governor of Virginia, a black woman and first-generation immigrant, was speaking before the Arlington School Board on its decision to let students use bathrooms based on identified, rather than biological, sex. Protestors surrounded the meeting to protest her speech. One of them held up a sign which stated the following:
In other words, if you don’t agree with our position on “trans” kids in school, we will return this state (and you) to its segregated past.
Political activists say a lot of dumb things. But what was so disturbing about this message was that it was written in big block letters and openly displayed for an extended time in the most liberal community in Virginia — without anybody objecting. (To her credit, Abigail Spanberger quickly and firmly condemned the offensive sign).
Just like that, Virginia Lt. Gov. Earle-Sears, the Republican candidate for governor, has seen a significant improvement in her race with former Rep. Abigail Spanberger, the Democrat.
This news came via Roanoke College, whose polling folks calculated a few months ago that Earle-Sears trailed Spanberger by 17 points. That seemed to be a sizable gap – sizable enough to make you wonder if Earle-Sears would enter the fall as a viable candidate. Virginia’s quadrennial exercise in gubernatorial selection could conceivably lay an egg.
Now the chicken, the egg, whatever, has recovered and Earle-Sears trails by only 7 points, says Roanoke College.
The other preferred metaphor involves resuscitation or even resurrection. She’s not flatlining anymore; she’s not comatose; there’s a pulse.
Then again, another recent poll – this one from Old Dominion University and completed online – invites Earle-Sears back into the ER. Furrowed brows all around.
In a surprise move, Todd Gilbert has resigned his position as acting U.S. Attorney for the Western District of Virginia. Gilbert, a stalwart conservative Republican and former Speaker of the Virginia House of Delegates, had been in the position for a little over a month. Gilbert offered no explanation for his resignation.
Brandon Jarvis, who publishes the Virginia Political Newsletter, reports that the story among insiders is that Gilbert was forced out by the Trump administration because he dared to buck the leaders in Washington.
Time for a little background. Virginia’s Senators, Mark Warner and Tim Kaine, had submitted two recommendations to the Trump administration: Gilbert and Rober Tracci, former Commonwealth’s attorney in Charlottesville. Trump nominated Gilbert, who was then sworn in as the interim U.S. Attorney, awaiting confirmation by the Senate. Gilbert called it the opportunity of a lifetime.
According to Jarvis’ sources, “the White House wanted him to replace an employee who worked in the office under the Biden administration and hire Robert Tracci, who was the other person in contention with Gilbert for the appointment.” Gilbert pushed back, citing his prerogative to hire his own choices for his staff. He eventually gave in and hired Tracci as the number two official in the office.
Gilbert’s display of independence must have irked or alarmed someone in the White House, because word soon came down that the President would withdraw his nomination unless he resigned.
The Trump administration has found that George Mason University (GMU) has violated federal law with its DEI policies. A spokesman for the Dept. of Education said, GMU “waged a university-wide campaign to implement unlawful DEI policies that intentionally discriminate on the basis of race.”
The penalty? The president of the university, Gregory Washington, must publicly apologize for his actions and pledge to follow the law. In addition, the Richmond Times Dispatchreports, “the school must review its policies and documents, such as instructions for hiring panels and scoring rubrics for resumes, to ensure they comply with Title VI. And Mason must conduct an annual training for administrators who make hires and promotions.”
Wow! That’s it for such serious offenses? All he has to do is apologize and promise not to do it again? At UVa., the president had to resign. At Harvard, Columbia, and Brown, fines are in the tens and hundreds of millions of dollars. The administration is seeking a $1 billion settlement against UCLA. Trump is obviously going after schools with deep pockets and lots of federal research grants. There is not that kind of leverage against a large, public university that has a relatively small research budget. In addition, thumping GMU does not generate the national headlines.
Two superintendents and a school board chair step down amid allegations of wrongdoing.
by Victoria Manning
Large Virginia school districts like Loudoun and Fairfax public schools aren’t the only ones in trouble — they’re just the ones making the headlines.
School superintendents in Essex and Northumberland Counties were recently removed as state police conduct investigations. Plus, the Essex School Board Chair, Garlyn Bundy, stepped down amidst a police investigation and accusations of defamation.
Essex County Schools investigation
Reports indicate potential financial mismanagement by Essex schools. In 2022–23, the reported special education program expenditure amount was different than what was reported to the state. That left the small division of Essex, a small county in eastern Virginia on the Rappahannock River, owing over $450,000, a large chunk of its $20 million budget.
Earlier this year, accounting director Elizabeth Franklin was removed by the school board. The board also put Superintendent Dr. Harry Thomas III on administrative leave; he ultimately retired from the position. In a letter to the community, Thomas acknowledged a “litany of mistakes, miscues, and missteps along the way. . ..” The Rappahannock Times further reported financial issues related to salary payments and retirement benefits currently under investigation.
Drama seeped into an Essex school board meeting in June when Garlyn Bundy, who was scheduled to step down from her position as board chair, instead pointing fingers at others and refusing to step aside. She is accused of making defamatory statements against acting Superintendent Doranda Scott during that meeting.
This is a story I could write in my sleep. After all, I’ve penned some version of it almost every year since 1985.
The first installment appeared in The Pilot on Sept. 1, 1985, after Pauline Monaco called the newspaper to ask us to write again about her daughter – Barbara Jean – who’d been missing for seven years.
I just happened to answer the phone that day. I didn’t know that decades later, the story would be still be a cruel mystery.
Barbara Jean Monaco
Intrigued, I found a file and a series of front-page stories about an 18-year-old from Connecticut who came to Virginia Beach for a week’s vacation in the summer of ’78 and never went home.
Since then I’ve written about the case so many times I’ve almost memorized the details.
The pretty majorette from Derby, Conn., her older sister Joanne and a friend arrived in town on Aug. 20, 1978, and checked into the old Aloha Motel on 15th Street.
They hit the beach during the day, the clubs at night. Early on the morning of Aug. 23 — a Wednesday — Barbara Jean left the motel to meet a bartender at Peabody’s who was finishing his shift.
She walked along Pacific Avenue. Yet somewhere between 15th and 21st Streets, Barbara Jean vanished.
Her frantic sister went to the police in the morning, but the cops made her wait 48 hours to file a missing person’s report.
A lawsuit could increase Democrat influence in the state’s largest city, and that’s by design.
by Hayden Ludwig
A far-left Beltway group is behind a lawsuit to boost Democrat control of a major Virginia city by redrawing its voting maps, Restoration News has learned.
The Campaign Legal Center (CLC), a D.C. litigation group once bankrolled with millions of dollars from infamous crypto-fraudster Sam Bankman-Fried, is representing two Virginia Beach plaintiffs in a lawsuit to change how residents elect their city council and school board officials. If successful, the lawsuit could carve out new Democrat-controlled “majority-minority” seats, or districts whose residents are mostly non-white.
The lawsuit centers on Virginia Beach’s complex “7-3-1” voting system, which is divided into seven single-member council districts—where candidates must reside to run for local office in order to properly represent those neighborhoods—and three at-large council seats, whose eligible candidates may live anywhere in the city. Residents also elect a mayor city-wide, hence “7-3-1.”
In practice, voters might cast their ballots for 5 councilmembers total: One member for their district plus one member per at-large seat, in addition to the mayor. This system is embedded in Virginia Beach’s city charter, which also requires the local school board follow the same system—meaning the stakes are high for controlling the future of Virginia’s largest city.
Norfolk’s Commonwealth Attorney Ramin Fatehi promised to talk to us about what appeared to be a lenient plea agreement in the case of a dead infant after the mother who’d been charged with murdering her 9-day-old daughter had her day in court.
He kept his word.
And Fatehi’s explanation for comparatively mild sentences for both parents of the battered baby makes sense.
Still, it doesn’t sit right. It doesn’t seem that justice was served. Neither parent confessed to killing the baby, neither pointed the finger at each other.
They’re both culpable.
And if jurors have been given a glimpse of that tiny child’s broken body, if they’d seen what must be a harrowing autopsy report, they may very well have sent both of these monsters to prison for life.
As it is, the father, Hilary Darnell Johnson II, pleaded guilty to second degree murder and according to a plea agreement accepted by the judge, will be sentenced in October to no more than 19 years in prison. (The maximum sentence is 40 years.)
On Tuesday, the mother of Iijayah Johnson, Z’Ibreyea Parker, pleaded guilty to felony child neglect and could face up to 10 years behind bars.
The year: 2075. The American colonies on the Moon are getting restless under Washington’s tyrannical rule….
This second edition of “Dust Mites” has a snazzy new cover, includes helpful lunar maps, and is 5,000 words tighter than the original. The sequel, “Trogs,” is scheduled for publication this summer.
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