Jim Webb is taking some heat for moving away from his slogan “Born Fighting.” Well, he won’t get any heat from this quarter. I think it’s about time.
For one thing, I don’t think the slogan helps him politically with the sector of the voter population he needs most to attract — the majority who are women.
More importantly, as I said yesterday in a blog post on the subject of the language of politics, it’s time to move away from words of war to words of discourse.
Now some will decry this suggestion as a move to “feminize” politics. And, you know what? If changing fighting to conversing, division to discourse, and confrontation to conversation is a “feminine” objective, I’m proud to be feminine!
Language is powerful. Ask Karl Rove and his cohort Frank Luntz.
Who can doubt that some of the heated rhetoric being used in public and private debates on the Marshall/Newman amendment or the immigration issue has an impact on the behavior of those, particularly children, who hear the language of fear and division? Who can doubt that language that consistently makes people “other” or “less than” invites people, especially children, to see the groups attacked as powerless and vulnerable?
As the words of the song in South Pacific go, “you have to be carefully taught” to hate.
We have seen what can happen when folks feel empowered by words to action. Just ask the two men who live in Aldie in Loudoun County whose property was vandalized and tagged with the word “fag”.
We can engage in civil debate. I heard one yesterday on a Sunday morning news show between between surrogates for Joe Lieberman and Ned Lamont.
And we can refuse to participate in “hate” and the language of hate. Read this quote from Buck O’Neil, a self-described “proud … Negro League ballplayer,” on the occasion of the induction this week of 17 Negro leaguers and Negro leagues executives into the National Baseball Hall of Fame:
And I tell you what: They always said to me, “Buck, I know you hate people for what they did to you or what they did to your folks.” I said, “No, man, I never learned to hate.”
I hate cancer. Cancer killed my mother. My wife died 10 years ago of cancer. I hate AIDS. A good friend of mine died of AIDS three months ago. I hate AIDS. But I can’t hate a human being, because my God never made anything so ugly. Now, you can be ugly if you want to, but God didn’t make you that way.
Most importantly, we can stand up and speak out against violence and words of violence, and against hate and words of hate whenever they appear.
I challenge those who would write discrimination into our constitution to stand publicly with the men of Aldie against the hate that visited them at their home.
I challenge those who would make Virginia the “least hospitable place in the universe for illegal immigrants” to ensure that the temper of their tone doesn’t lead to the same place in which the Aldie men found themselves: homes damaged and neighborhoods torn by division and fear of “other.”
Now in the interest of full disclosure, let me repeat what’s in my profile: I am the paid campaign manager for The Commonwealth Coalition which opposes the Marshall/Newman amendment and I am paid by the Virginia coalition of Latino Organizations to lobby for reasoned consideration of laws that affect the immigrant community.
But my passion here is personal. My husband is Puerto Rican and my namesake (the third generation Claire Guthrie) is half Chinese. I want them both to be able to go to school or work without fear of discrimination; to live where they want to live without fear of being “alienized” as other; to live peacefully in the “God’s mix” that is America. I want these same things for my friends who are members of the GLBT community.
So, I see changing “Born Fighting” to another less confrontational, and, hopefully, inspiring slogan as a small step in the direction of changing the language of politics to a less divisive and polarizing model.