End Parental Discrimination in Surrogacy Cases

by Jay Timmons

Residents in the Richmond area are represented by three Republicans in the state Senate with very different views of Life and Family. All three will be on the ballot Tuesday.

When it counted, Siobhan Dunnavant stood strong for children and the unborn. But sadly, Glen Sturtevant and Amanda Chase chose discrimination and bigotry over Life. Sturtevant and Chase acted as charlatans who sent a very clear message with their votes that our son did not even have the right to exist.

The bill, HB1979, which Dunnavant supported and Sturtevant and Chase callously voted against, is also known as “Jacob’s Law,” and was inspired by my son and the horrific four-year legal battle that my husband Rick and I endured in an out-of-state court. The bill was simple – eliminate discrimination in Virginia’s parental rights laws for children born through surrogacy so that all intended parents are treated equally. The bill brought laws on surrogacy in line with those that existed for adoption in Virginia. Most importantly, the bill – which is now law thanks to bipartisan support – means more frozen embryos can be rescued and saved from potential destruction.

The inequality that once existed in Virginia law meant our son Jacob had to be born in another state. Our family then experienced the worst of our legal system when an activist judge took away our parental rights for no valid reason after those rights had been already granted in our uncontested case. What followed was months of legal maneuvering, sleepless nights, constant nausea, thirteen lawyers and second and third mortgages. The ruling, called “harsh” and “weird” by another judge, deliberately left our son an orphan and branded us “human traffickers,” all because my my family saved an embryo and gave him Life and a Family.

The disgraceful ruling was eventually overturned soon after the activist judge resigned from office, and Jacob is forever safe with us and his two sisters, C.J. and Ellie. But no family should have to endure the emotional torture and anguish that we suffered. Our whole family traveled to Richmond to share our story in front of House and Senate Committees, and we were humbled by leaders like Senator Dunnavant who stood with us and other families across the Commonwealth. We were equally as disgusted at the callous disregard for Life and Families displayed by Senators Sturtevant and Chase who unsuccessfully tried to kill the bill, following the vitriolic lead of hateful special interests who spread cruel lies and intentional deception.

As a result of “Jacob’s Law,” more lives will be saved. More families will be built. And Virginia is an even better place to live, work and raise a family. As a father, I urge voters to remember Tuesday which Virginia State Senator stood up for Life and Family, and which ones turned their backs.

Jay Timmons, a resident of McLean, is former chief of staff to Republican Governor George Allen and former executive director of the National Republican Senatorial Committee.

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4 responses to “End Parental Discrimination in Surrogacy Cases

  1. The headline notwithstanding, the bill passed and did end what Jay considered “discrimination.” Now he is just taking very-last-minute revenge on anybody who dared to disagree with his opinion and voted no on the bill. The winner then shoots the losers. Par for the course these days. I was first to write about the bill, and on reflection had no problem with the bill, but it did take some reflection. There are ethical implications when re-writing the laws around human embryos (well, there should be.) Yes, those were mixed with concern over same-sex marriage, etc.

    https://www.baconsrebellion.com/wp/assisted-conception-option-for-the-new-realities/

    And whatever Jay was, he currently IS president of the National Association of Manufacturers. Not quite sure why that was left off his identification. Perhaps to highlight this most recent example of the GOP love of circular firing squads.

  2. This is another example of why the GOP loses in the blue areas of the state. Instead of rushing into the fray to take a stand for what is right – they hang back – for fear of their own base that will then “primary” them if they stray too far from their evangelical base view of the world.

    I admit -part of me finds this whole area of modern-day human relations – not what I’ve been comfortable with but I can’t handle the “God fearing types” politics…. and most GOP seem pretty much feckless on it. They only seem to budge when that issue affects them in a personal way……..

  3. Amanda Chase – isn’t she the politician who struts around the General Assembly wearing a sidearm? Then there’s Joe Morrissey who brought an assault rifle into the General Assembly. Both Richmond area politicians as I recall.

    Mr. Timmons, I am glad it all worked out. As you have personally learned Virginia is more than just a little behind the times. This was brought home to me in 2006 when the Marshall-Neumann Amendment was passed by 57% of the voters. I never could understand how any supposedly liberty loving conservative could support an anti-gay marriage amendment. What business is it of theirs? Fortunately, that amendment was found to be unconstitutional in 2014 and, in a great bit of poetic justice, one of its sponsors (Bob Marshall) lost his seat to an openly transgender politician (Danica Roem).

    Sadly, the Marshall-Neumann Amendment is still the Virginia Constitution even though it is absolutely unenforceable. Seems like our political class ought to do a little clean up and remove it.

  4. https://www.roanoke.com/opinion/commentary/timmons-remember-those-who-stood-for-families/article_b1de2991-0d26-521c-b651-50ec600f4f01.html

    Old news now, but Timmons went to the Roanoke paper and took his revenge on David Suetterlein for voting no. I wonder where else….

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