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Doug Koelemay



 

Taking Liberties

 

The erosion of Virginia’s conservative values by new moral dictators is proceeding at an alarming rate.


 

Abandon the broad commitments to individual liberty that have been the bedrock of conservative thought in Virginia since it was colonized. Whittle off more modern moves toward greater equality, opportunity and privacy for all. Throw to the winds the caution against government dictating morals code and religious beliefs to the most diverse population Virginia has ever known. Now, wake up in a Commonwealth where state government increasingly is asked to validate narrow belief systems and seems anxious to dictate everything from scientific principles to medical practice, from judicial decision-making to the characteristics of marriage.

 

The 2004 session of the General Assembly, for example, witnessed votes to have state government intervene more deeply in reproductive matters and end-of-life-care decisions, to impeach judges who rule same-sex marriage laws unconstitutional, to declare certain scientific research illegal and to tell state universities what medication doctors and pharmacists can give students.

 

One could hear a Virginia Senator triumphantly tell medical doctors testifying before his committee, “We tell doctors how to practice medicine all the time.” One could vote, as the Virginia Senate and House of Delegates did on March 11, for a new law that declares any civil union, partnership contract or other arrangement between persons of the same sex void in Virginia.

 

Such measures far exceed the nanny-ism that conservatives accuse liberals of fostering. By embracing active and interventionist government in the most private of matters they kiss their traditional principles good by. Conservatives once feared big, powerful, interfering government. Now, wielding their majority power, they dispense with moderation and caution in favor of precipitous and radical action. The fact that these diktats win majority votes in the General doesn’t hide their chilling, authoritarian nature.

 

The preambles to the original bill against gay marriage and same-sex unions, for example, claimed that same-sex unions would bring legal sanctions against persons and institutions opposed to them, that churches whose teachings did not accept homosexual behavior as moral would lose their tax exemptions, that that gay marriage would weaken the institution of marriage and harm children, that recognizing out-of-state same sex unions would subvert representative government in Virginia and that the beneficial health effects of heterosexual marriage would be lost to the life-shortening and health-compromising consequences of homosexual behavior. Apparently neither facts nor constitutions need impinge on opinions about gay unions.

 

Just for the record, gay marriage or same sex civil unions do not threaten my marriage. My wife and I talked about it. We agreed, in fact, that no other marriage threatens our marriage, nor does any other marriage make our marriage. Your Las Vegas-chapel-for-a-night, bungee-jumping ceremony, infidelity, marry-along-with-

two-thousand-other-couples, quickie divorce, fourth-times-a-charm, live-in-separate-cities, child-visitation-schedules, whatever marriage is your business. Our marriage has meaning because of what the two of us have brought to it for almost 34 years. But any increased government role in defining or governing my marriage is a threat. You issued the license, now get lost.

 

But, then, the campaign against gay marriages isn’t really about marriage. It’s about gays. Read again the preambles to the law that eventually were stripped away and that becomes clear. The new moralists are right back on the hoary path that liberty and rights belong to Virginians who look like them, think like them and act like them. We know that path leads backwards.

 

That a majority of any group is ready to discriminate against or harass gays, of course, isn’t surprising. It does reflect the worst of our history in which at one time or another we’ve used the law to define away the rights of Native Americans, Africans, women, immigrants, non-property owners and others. Discrimination certainly is not new in American history or any other history for that matter. But where American history differs, driven in no small measure by the best in Virginians, is in its determination over centuries to preserve liberty and to end discrimination and to recognize that being different does not require approval from any majority.

 

The Constitution of the United States and that of Virginia, for example, demand equality under the law. What makes marriage or a civil union between any two specific adults different for government? That is the question being brought before courts for review and resolution. A slew of federal, state and local laws prohibit discrimination on the basis of race, color, disability, religion, sex, national origin, age, marital status and sexual orientation. What makes equal rights to marry or seek civil union different from those in the work place in the eyes of the law? Seeking thoughtful answers to these kinds of questions before acting precipitously is the mark of a conservative.

 

That legislators seem prepared to use government as an instrument of new discrimination is what thoughtful conservative Virginians would have called a tyranny. Virginia’s state flag signals the appropriate response. That so many dismiss changes in an increasingly diverse America as a conspiracy of San Francisco wackos or activist judges in Massachusetts signals a purposeful ignorance. America always has been about openings, not closings. A deeper look at diverse Virginia reveals the bankruptcy in moral dictators seeking government cover for their own fear and loathing.

 

-- March 15, 2004

  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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J. Douglas Koelemay

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