The Shape of the Future

E M Risse


 

End of the Family as we Knew It

 

 

The word "family" means many things to many people. For purposes of examining human settlement patterns, the term "household" is more precise.



A recurring theme of Shape of the Future columns has been the need to evolve a robust and definitive Vocabulary to discuss human settlement patterns. We have explored this issue in prior columns (“The Foundation of Babble,” 28 November 2005; “Deconstructing the Tower of Babel,” 12 December 2005; “Babble Postscript,” 3 January 2006; and “Words Matter,” 20 March 2006.) As these columns document, evolving a functional Vocabulary requires defining new words and phrases and avoiding the use of confusing words. Words suggested to be avoided in discussion of human settlement patterns back in 2000 when The Shape of the Future was published include “city,” “ex-urban,” “local,” “rural,” “sprawl” and “suburb / suburban.” (See End Note One.)

The long-promised Shape of the Future GLOSSARY is now posted on Bacon's Rebellion in draft form, open for review comments and/or suggestions. The latest updated version will be included in the anticipated publishing of TRILO-G in 2008. Since compiling the original GLOSSARY, we have added a new word to avoid: “family.”

 

Why remove “family” from the words used to discuss human settlement pattern? Here is the explanation contained in the draft GLOSSARY

Family

Since publication of The Shape of the Future in 2000, the use of the word “family” has been recognized as a source of misconceptions concerning human settlement patterns and thus becomes a Core Confusing Word. In TRILO-G and the Three-Step Process of HANDBOOK, “family” has been replaced by “Household.” Avoiding the use of the word family, unless it is further described or put in context, is suggested.

There have always been a number of uses of the word “family.” The word family has been overused and caused confusion when discussing human settlement patterns but recent data indicates that it is time to recognize the problem in a formal way. The reason behind avoiding use of the word “family” at this time is due to the confusion caused by referring to the occupants of a single dwelling Unit as a family because of the assumptions that citizens draw from what they assume “family” to mean. 

The general assumption is that a family is a husband, a wife and their children unless the description includes a modifier such as “extended” as in “extended family.” Consideration of a typical Dooryard suggests that “family” is an inappropriate way to describe the occupants of the majority of the dwelling Units.

The sample Dooryard profiled below is made up of Single Household Detached (SHD) dwellings with a 2006 assessed value ranging from $525,000 to $625,000. The demographic profile of the occupants is somewhat older but otherwise mirrors the New Urban Region profile. If the following data applies to what municipal comprehensive plans typically call “a stable single family neighborhood,” consider the occupant profile of Units in other contexts.

Here is the data for one 10-Unit Dooryard. In this Dooryard there are Units with the following occupants:

1. A mother, a father and their young children 

2. A mother and father with one minor child plus minor children of the mother from a previous marriage

3. A mother, father and a grandchild

4. A mother, father, an adult child and her daughter (a grandchild)

5. A mother and father and two adult children

6. A father with minor children and a new companion

7. A mother with adult children but none living in the Unit

8. A mother and father with an adult child but not living in the Unit

9. Two empty nest couples where both husband and wife have children but no children in common and none living in the Unit

Out of the 10 Units how many are occupied by a “family”? One, two, three, seven? All the Units are occupied by Households and thus the use of the term in discussing human settlement patterns.

Beyond the complexity of relationships in the Units within a specific Dooryard, it is well documented that a mother, father and minor children - blended families or not - make up less than 25% of the Households in the United States. In spite of this, most houses are designed as if they are going to be occupied by a “traditional family.” 


There is nothing “wrong” with any of these living arrangements, the majority are just not what comes to mind when the word “family” is used and, as suggested below, skew the discussion of functional human settlement patterns.

Even more important, the categories into which the 10 Units in this Dooryard can be classified have changed significantly within a short period of time. Of the 10 households over the past five years, four have completely changed with a new set of occupants. One Unit has been home to three separate Households in five years. In five of the other Units, persons within the Household have changed, thus shifting the Unit from one of the nine categories listed above to another. The occupants of one Unit have changed categories seven times in nine years. Over a 5 year period, only one Household has stayed the same with the same individuals and the same status. Ninety percent turn over in 5 years is a huge rate of change and is far more flux than is usually thought of as “turnover.” Most “turnover” calculations are based on “sale-of-unit” data. That metric, and most other perceptions of the family, are archaic.

Yes, there are Dooryards, especially ones with Units that were built recently where a majority of the Units are occupied by a mother, a father and their children. That will change in time. When the Units in the profiled Dooryard were sold about 10 years ago five Units were occupied by a mother, a father and minor children and one Unit by a mother and minor children. 

(See End Note Two for the definitions of Dooryard, Household and Unit. Words in boldface type are included in the GLOSSARY.)

We were shocked when we first saw this data. We discussed it with others familiar with similar “well-to-do” Dooryards and found comparable profiles in every Dooryard about which there was relevant data. We would encourage readers to survey a Dooryard with which they are familiar. 

The first problem, as with any survey, may be that many do not yet know where their Dooryard starts and stops or know enough about the residents of the Dooryard to summarize the data. This in itself says a lot about the dysfunctional disaggregation of contemporary society. (See the definition of Dooryard in End Note Two. For an in-depth discussion of the importance of Dooryards see The Shape of the Future.)

So why is the disjunction between the stereotype of the family and its reality a problem? We address this issue in our column “A Yard Where Johnny Can Run and Play” (1 December 2003).

The assumption is that Units for “families” require “big yards” to provide a proper setting to “raise children.” The cumulative impact of big yards is dysfunctional human settlement patterns at the Cluster, Neighborhood, Village and Community scales. 

We call this The Big Yard Myth. The column, “A Yard Where Johnny Can Run and Play,” lists some consensus elements of “a good place to raise a child” and examines how The Big Yard Myth thwarts the existence of most of them due to settlement pattern disaggregation. 

One serious downside of disaggregated society is that one might assume, based on the parents of the children’s soccer teammates or the people on their speed-dial lists, that they are representative of those in their Dooryard, Cluster or Neighborhood -- they may not be. Security, safety, happiness and survival depend on cohesive and functional economic, social and physical relationships in the components of human settlement. Citizens need a clear Vocabulary to achieve those relationships. 

The Dooryard data suggests that those who champion the “traditional family” need to adjust their perspective. 

-- July 30, 2007



End Notes


(1.) LIST OF CORE CONFUSING WORDS BEST AVOIDED IN DISCUSSIONS OF HUMAN SETTLEMENT

(For further discussion of these words and phrases see The Shape of the Future, APPENDIX TWO - CORE CONFUSING WORDS and Section IV. GLOSSARY in HANDBOOK.)

City

City was once the focus of economic activity but has evolved into a word with many meanings. This word is loaded with obsolete and emotionally charged interpretations. The word is still used in the official name of some forms of municipal governance but does not represent an organic component of human settlement pattern. For this reason it is best to avoid its use whenever possible except as part of the name of a specific municipal entity (such as the City of Alexandria). See City.

Ex-Urban

Ex-Urban is used to refer to an area of very low density urban land uses. This is a misleading way to describe a previously nonurban area that has become urban through scatterization of urban land uses. See Ex-urban.

Family

Family has evolved to become a confusing way to describe the occupants of a dwelling Unit. In TRILO-G the word Household is used rather than family. See Family.

Local

Use of the word local has been extended far beyond a limited district: “the local office”, “the local government.” Considering a local government can include from 150 to five million citizens. Depending on the context, local is used to indicate a proximity or service radius from Dooryard to continent.

Rural

Rural is used as a catchall substitute for sylvan, bucolic, rustic and pastoral, a reference to a past existence that was close to nature and primitive. These descriptors are often used facetiously. Rural once applied to sparsely settled agricultural areas as distinguished from settled, urban areas.

Sprawl

Sprawl or sprawling is overused and misused in describing dysfunctional human settlement patterns.

Suburb/Suburban

Suburb/Suburban have morphed from adjectives to nouns and verbs and have acquired varied confusing meaning and interpretations. “Suburban” has been in use in the English Language since the 15th Century to mean “less than urban” and was used to describe undesirable persons (pimps, prostitutes, petty thieves, and potential traitors) who could not be trusted to be inside the walls of the “city” at night or during times of danger. The common usage has expanded and is now meaningless. See Suburb/Suburban.

(2.) Three definitions from Draft Bacon’s Rebellion “Shape of the Future” GLOSSARY:

Dooryard

Dooryard is an organic component of human settlement pattern. An Alpha Dooryard is a functional grouping of Units. The Dooryard has historic roots as housing for an extended family or an intentional grouping of Households. The Dooryard is the next larger scale of physical (spacial) orientation and proximity beyond the Unit

In contemporary settlement patterns, the Dooryard’s identity and functionality has atrophied while the need for social cohesiveness at this scale has grown. Much of what is attributed to “a great neighborhood” actually happens at the Dooryard scale. One way to think of a Dooryard is to consider the front doors a person can see from his or her front steps. Another perspective is that a Dooryard is comprised of the Units one could easily get to in an emergency. Another image of the Dooryard is the group of Units that one would first consider going to “borrow a cup of sugar.” 

Alpha Clusters are composed of Alpha Dooryards. Beta Dooryards may evolve into Alpha Dooryards. Also see Alpha and Beta as well as Unit and Cluster.

Household

A Household is composed of the occupants of a single dwelling Unit

Unit

The Unit is a dwelling occupied by a Household. Units provide shelter for cooking, eating, sleeping, hygiene and recreation of the Household members. Units may be located in buildings that are Single Household Detached, Single Household Attached (duplex, town house, quadraplex) or Multi-Household.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ed Risse and his wife Linda live inside the "Clear Edge" of the "urban enclave" known as Warrenton, a municipality in the Countryside near the edge of the Washington-Baltimore "New Urban Region."

 

Mr. Risse, the principal of

SYNERGY/Planning, Inc., can be contacted at spirisse@aol.com.

 

Read his profile here.